I Am My Mother's Daughter
I’m lonely here, ma. I almost said it to her over the phone. Instead, I cut the call with a smiling goodbye, talk to you later. I didn’t say it. If I had, maybe she would’ve talked to me an hour longer. Maybe I would be breaking down in tears fifteen minutes into that conversation. Maybe she would feel helpless because she is not here to hug me and console me and I would feel helpless for making her feel the repercussions of the 1500 kilometres between us. There are so many things I want to tell my mother. I want to tell her how I resented her for burying some of her rage in me. I want to tell her that I’m grateful for all the softness she showed me despite burning inside for so long. I want to tell her that I’m afraid I will not be able to do that for the people I love. I want to tell her that I am so, so scared of losing my softness. I want to tell her that I am more and less of her daughter every passing day. I want to tell her that I have learnt every lesson she taught me a doze